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It’s Ok To Put Your Needs First…Learn to Say “NO” when needed!!!!

Many people find it hard to say no to other people for one reason or the other. Its not always easy to take a firm step and say no. There are many reasons for this. Thinking you are a bad person for saying no is a symptom of “the disease to please.” “Saying yes when you need to say no causes burnout. You do yourself and the person making the request a disservice by saying yes all of the time,” says author Duke Robinson. Here’s how to do the right thing―for yourself and others―in common scenarios where you know that opting out is your best option. Don’t feel guilty. Just take these tips from experts on etiquette and communication―and a cue from your favorite two-year-old―and say no.

Learn the power of saying “no” when you need to. This is not easy by any means, but it’s the only way to stay focused on the important things in your life. Saying yes to everything may result in the loss of ability to say yes to the best things. Say no more often and take back the control over your schedule and your life.

Say no to others without offering an apology. Everyone has the right to say yes or no to things that come up in daily life. Many work hard at saying no more often, but feel bad or guilty for doing so and then end up offering all kinds of reasons or excuses. You do not owe people an explanation about your choices regarding your own life. Learn to say no, without apology.

Learn to tolerate other peoples’ discomfort with the word no. Everyone needs to say no to somethings. Otherwise, the other people in our lives will take as much of our time and resources as we have to give them. When someone hears no and reacts negatively, it’s more about them than you. If they persist, ask why they expect you to say no to your own family, health, goals, etc. just so you can say yes to them. Only say yes when it’s something you truly want.

As you seek for a better tomorrow, the information in this article can assist you in making your dreams a reality. Holding onto your education, motivation and essential strategies help you make a concrete plan and stick to it; without such structure, moving forward may be more difficult than you can manage. By holding on to these strategies–and most importantly, to hope–you are setting your path toward a better, happier outlook.

To your success,

Arlinda Lindsay

 

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